Showing posts with label Smith. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Smith. Show all posts

Friday, July 25, 2025

It happened again: Related to my Client??

     It happened again! It's as if God brings clients to me whom I am supposed to research to find out that I might be related to them. This has happened multiple times. I found out I was related to a client I knew in Colorado. I've also learned I'm related to a friend of mine, although she wasn't a client. But learning of this connection really blew my mind.

    An associate I volunteer with at the Franklin County Historical Society hired me to do some research on her family in St. Louis. Since my family is from St. Louis, I have experience in that area. She wanted me to trace the lines to see if there were any living relatives. So off I went, building out her tree. This was a new challenge for me as my client is black. Researching records for black or African American roots can be difficult, depending on the time period and area. But I was enjoying tracking down her family.
    One of the lines I was tracing (Turner) had a girl who married a man with the last name of Hooper. But that's not what got my attention. The gentleman was born in Waverly, Tennessee. Now, if you have followed my blog and read about my family, you will know my Wheeler line is from Waverly, Humphreys County, Tennessee. My grandpa, Les Wheeler, was born there. 

Leslie Woodrow Wheeler
Born Dec 18, 1918
White Oak Creek, Humphreys County, TN

    And one of the jokes was, "If you are related to someone in Waverly, you are related to all of them." What led weight to this fact was that I did have Hooper's in my tree. So I immediately started looking closer into that line.
    I found James Ira Hooper's family in Humphreys County in the census records. First, I found the 1910 census. Thomas Hooper is the father of James Ira Hooper. The family is listed on line 45 on sheet 12A. (This is important to note)

Thomas Hooper & Family
1910 United States Federal Census
Sheet 12A; Line 45
District 60, Humphreys County, Tennessee
Source: Ancestry.com

    When I began researching my Wheeler family in Humphreys County, Tennessee, I learned quickly that they all lived very close to each other and appeared on the same pages of census records. So I decided to look at the lines above and below this Hooper family to see who would have been their neighbors. 


Read "Wheelers and Damesworth and Curtises... Oh My!"


    I scrolled up to line 33 and thought, "Hey, I recognize those names!". It turns out that it is my great-grandfather, James Benjamin Francis Wheeler, my great-grandmother, Elizabeth Wheeler (nee Damesworth), and their children. My grandpa, Les Wheeler, wouldn't be born until 1918. My family lived right near my client's Hooper family! Then I looked right below the Hooper family and found my great-grandfather's Uncle, George Smith, and his wife, Georgia Smith (nee Wheeler).

Thomas Hooper, James B Wheeler & George Smith
1910 United States Federal Census
Sheet 12A; Lines 33, 45, & 50
District 60, Humphreys County, Tennessee
Source: Ancestry.com


    If that wasn't enough, if you scroll up higher on this sheet, you will find my great-grandmother's parents: James Dillard Damesworth and Willie Damesworth (nee Thompson). They are on line 5 of the same sheet! This is insane! But wait, there is more. Right above my Damesworth family is Thomas Hooper's PARENTS!

James Damesworth & William Hooper
1910 United States Federal Census
Sheets 11B & 12A; Lines 98 & 5
District 60, Humphreys County, Tennessee
Source: Ancestry.com

    While they are listed right next to each other, we need to remember this is farm country. So the census taker would have walked many miles to the next property. They could have been crossing the road to the next farm. So it's possible the families lived across the road from each other and not next door. But still, the fact that they literally lived right by my family blew my mind. What are the odds? And this is just the 1910 Census. Let's go back to the 1900 Census.

    In 1900, William Hooper, father of James Ira Hooper, lived in Humphreys County District 18. And right underneath their family was James Damesworth, my 2nd great-grandfather. 

William Hooper & James Damesworth
1900 United States Federal Census
Sheet 4B; Lines 88 & 98
District 18, Humphreys County, Tennessee
Source: Ancestry.com 

    I have yet to prove any relation to this line of Hooper's. And if there is a connection, it would only be through the short marriage of James Ira Hooper and Margaret Turner, but a connection is still a connection. And I would be excited to be connected with my colleague. I just hope the connection is a positive one.

Just one of the exciting findings in my research. Stay tuned for more!



Tuesday, November 7, 2023

In Memory of Kyle Smith

     I just received news last night that my long-lost cousin, Kyle Smith, passed away. He was only 30 years old. We were connected through my Wheeler family line, and he was considered my 3rd Cousin 1x removed. We got in contact through genealogy research. He had a huge passion for research, which is what led us to get in contact. He was just a wealth of information about our family. We had hoped to meet up one day in person, but unfortunately, that won't be the case.

    I don't know what happened. Last I heard, he was taking care of his mom, my 3rd cousin. Her health wasn't doing so well. She was in and out of the hospital quite a bit. Poor Kyle was the sole provider and caregiver. I do know that Kyle struggled with depression hardcore. I think he was diagnosed with bipolar, but I can't remember. There were nights spent praying for him and his family and trying to encourage him through the rough times. I know one thing he really struggled with was the loss of his brother, Chris. That hit him so hard. Being that I am not close with the family, I may never know what exactly happened with Kyle, but that's okay. I just know that I will miss him greatly.

How We Are Related

I got in contact with Kyle years ago when I first began my research. He had uploaded many documents and photos of the family that helped me make connections. Our common ancestors were John William Enoch Wheeler and his wife Mary Elizabeth Ware. My great-grandfather was James Benjamin Francis Wheeler, son of John & Mary. Kyle's ancestor was James' brother, George Ezra Daniel Wheeler.

Family Tree of John William Enoch Wheeler
Ancestry.com

    Thanks to Kyle, I got copies of pages from the Wheeler Family Bible that contain Births, Marriages, and Deaths. That led me to locate documents to back up this information. He also tagged me in a photo that helped me connect a missing piece that was in my grandma's collection.



       This was one of my most exciting finds because that is my Great-Grandma. She died when my grandpa was just a baby, so I didn't have any pictures of her. Or so I thought. If he wouldn't have tagged me in that full photo, I wouldn't have figured out who this was. So as you can see, thanks to Kyle, I was able to connect more pieces and trace my family back further. 

Grief comes in many different ways. And right now I'm grieving what would have been along with missing him. Please pray for Kyle's family as they process this difficult time. I'm grateful for the short time I knew Kyle. One day I know I will eventually see him. 

Here is Kyle's obituary: https://www.luffbowen.com/obituaries/kyle-smith

Kyle Austin Smith
April 21, 1993 - November 4, 2023