Monday, December 29, 2025

End of the Year Review - 2025

Research for Client
Four Rivers
Genealogical Society 

This year has been the longest shortest year I've had in a while. It went by fast, but the beginning of the year was so long ago that I had to scroll back through my accounts to remind myself what all happened and what I'd accomplished. So take a trip back with me through the year 2025 and reminise what the year brought.

January was spent mostly recovering from the holidays and planning out my year. I was invited to give a lecture at East Central College in April, so I spent most of the month preparing. We also had a severe ice storm come through that caused damage to the roof at the museum. This would lead to a year of cleaning, protecting, remodeling, and fixing up things at the museum. 

February was spent doing more research on the Grand Army of the Republic in Franklin County for my lecture. Lynn and I took a trip to some local cemeteries to locate a few of the first graves decorated for the inaugural Memorial Day in Franklin County in 1888.

First Memorial Day in Franklin County
Local History Series - History of GAR
24 April 2025


 
Blog Post: In Search of Civil War Veterans: Chiles Cemetery
We went to Chiles Cemetery first, but couldn't find any of the headstones as they haven't been maintained. Lynn did locate an old friend of hers who was buried there, so it wasn't a wasted trip. We tried to find another cemetery, but it was on a farmer's property, and we weren't sure exactly where it was, so we didn't disturb the landowners. 


Cemetery Laws in Missouri - Lynn Wagner
So everyone knows, Missouri law allows for any person to visit a cemetery on private property for normal cemetery business such as paying respects and leaving flowers. You must attempt to make contact with the property owner. If you cannot reach them, go up the chain to the local historical society, then authorities as a courtesy to say hey I’m here looking at this cemetery. If you park on the road or a driveway, leave a note on your dashboard explaining. I’ve even left notes at the door of the house on the property. 
Missouri Revisor of Statutes: https://revisor.mo.gov/main/OneSection.aspx?section=214.132


During this time, the Missouri State Archives also released the 1974 Death Certificates to the public. Each year, they release the next set of death certificates to the public for viewing. So next year, they will release the 1975 Death Certificates.


March
brought in a historic Tornado on the 14th. It traveled through Franklin County, destroying many businesses and homes. (Pinterest Board of photos) I spent time downloading photos and stories to add to the FCHS Pinterest board. During this time, I also decorated the front window at the museum to be ready for opening on the 19th. 

The big event of the month was the Local Author Showcase Vol. 1 at the FCHS and Museum. I was one of six authors with a table set up to show the book I wrote about my 2nd Great-Grandma. Pauline Ilg: Brave and Courageous. I brought five books to sell and came home with none. It was such a great day. I was grateful for the support of my hubby and my bestie, who made the reel below for me.

April was crazy as I was doing final preparations for my lecture. I visited the Washington Historical Society to research one of the local GAR posts. I also finally visited the newly remodeled Clark Branch of the St. Louis County Library in Frontenac. It was exciting to see all they had done to improve the library. It's also the location of the St. Louis County Library Genealogy History Department. In a word... AMAZING! My favorite new addition is the Memory Lab for digitizing old media. I haven't used it yet, but I plan to next year. 

The most exciting event to happen this month was the lecture I gave at East Central College here in Union as part of the Local History Series arranged by Sue Blesi and assisted by Suzanne Pautler. I was so nervous, but it all went well for the most part. I even received a special surprise from the local chapter of the SUVCW. You can read more about it on the blog post I wrote: https://auntiejenstrees.blogspot.com/2025/04/surprise-at-my-ecc-lecture-on-gar.html


May called for a vacation. I went to Chicago with my bestie for a book convention. It was a lot of fun just cutting loose. I also shared some of my bookmarks with others. Upon my return, I began working on a new tree for a client. This would occupy the majority of my free time for the rest of the year. But this month wasn't all fun. We finally reached the end of a long journey. We closed the sale on my childhood home. This was something I had been looking forward to for a long time, but when the end came, it was hard and emotional. We filmed a final walkthrough video, which I plan on putting together next year. It will include photos and videos from all the years we lived there. But I did put together a special goodbye video.

June had its ups and downs. I ordered more copies of my book with the money I earned from selling the other copies I had. I usually have to wait for a good deal from Shutterfly as it's so expensive. Hubby and I worked on digitizing and labeling photos and slides, a never-ending process. My bestie invited me to a book signing by one of her favorite authors, held in an old, restored building called The City Foundry. I got to look at some old photos and even a historic map of St. Louis. 


Unfortunately, in between all that, our spare time was spent helping my mother-in-law as my father-in-law's health was declining. We started helping her go through things in the house to start getting rid of items and passing items along to Mark and his other sister. There are still some things to go through; similar to my childhood home, Mark's family has been in their house just as long. 

July brought about the change we were dreading. My father-in-law passed away on the 30th. We spent the month visiting him in the hospital as often as we could. In between all that, I filmed a few reels for the historical society and wrote a blog post about How Newspapers Can Lead to Other Sources

August was spent planning the funeral and preparations. We went through photos, told stories, and reminisced. I had the pleasure of putting together the sideshow for the funeral. The obituary was written by my sister-in-law, and you can read it here: https://auntiejenstrees.blogspot.com/2025/08/in-memory-of-paul-rickards-my-father-in.html.

In Union, Andy's Produce moved into a newly remodeled historic building, refurbished by Union Furniture. This property sat vacant for years and was in horrible disrepair. It used to house the Union Bottling Co., Crystal Ice and Fuel, and Vitt Mill. I had the privilege of visiting the opening weekend. What a transformation.

The last thing I worked on for the month was a new blog post. My child helped me with this one, as it addresses some subject matters that their generation is currently facing. How Will Genealogy Be Different in the Future

September was spent researching more for my client, with a few breaks in between. One exciting event I went to was the Local History Expo at the Clark Branch of the St. Louis County Library. The last time I attended this event was before the COVID-19 pandemic. I was so excited to attend. I even arranged for the Franklin County Historical Society to have a booth the next time they have their event. One of the classes I attended was about the 1973 Fire at the National Personnel Records Center (You've seen me talk about this before). I was also excited to talk to some of the different organizations, including the Carondelet Historical Society. Once I mentioned the book I wrote that features Carondelet, they were interested in having a copy in their library. One of the other organizations I talked with was the St. Clair County Historical Society (Illinois). I mentioned I had some family from there, and they invited me to write a small story for their newsletter. It was a great day. I even got to visit with my Aunt!

We also got to celebrate Lynn's birthday at Balducci Vineyard, a local winery. I'm not a big wine drinker, but it was very informative, and I actually found a few wines I liked. Lynn is our FCHS president, and she really deserves a break after all the hard work she has been doing at the Museum. I even got to bring my child along, who is 21 now!

October is when everything hit the fan. Mom had a crushed nerve in her back which caused excruciating pain. I was taking care of her as much as I could. Then MY back gave out right around when we were supposed to have our History Fair. I'm still recovering, and so is Mom. But during this month, I wrote another blog post for Halloween (Spooky Family Story Time), I filmed a few new My Two Cents Videos and started a new series called Conversations with a Genealogist. All of these are on my Instagram.


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As I mentioned above, we also had our Annual Franklin County History Fair. I did not have my own table set up this year with so much going on. So I helped out with the FCHS and their booth. We had a decent turnout, although the rain kept some people away. We had some new vendors this year, which was great! We hope they come back next year. 

November, I spent most of the month laid up with my back. So I took the time to work on my client's report. I'm still working on it, actually, because I have so much to share. It was also my father-in-law's first birthday in heaven, so we visited him at Jefferson Barracks. He has a beautiful spot on the hill overlooking the rest of the cemetery with an amazing view of the sunset.

December wraps up with a few good moments. I finally sent off my book to the Carondelet Historical Society. Now my book will be in their library collection! I'm still working on my client's report, mostly because I keep finding more interesting things. I made a few silly memes and reels to share, attended the FCHS Christmas Party, and also shared a Christmas Ad my Grandma and Grandpa Wheeler published in the Jefferson County Record in 1958 and 1959. 

 

Some other things that happened this month

Books added to my collection: The GAR Blue Book, The Glorious Contentment, a Fort Leonard Wood Yearbook, and many books from my dad's collection, including History of Eureka, a Vietnam Veterans book, and a book about Sacred Heart Church.

Items Digitized: Some of my Grandma's slides and the new Fort Leonard Wood Yearbook

Newspaper Finds: An article about my Papa trying to save some men at a local gas station, a photo of my dad's high school football team, the original ads placed in the newspaper for our childhood homes, and (just this week) ads and information on the Rivermont Service Station and Trading Post (more details on that coming soon). Plus, I found numerous articles for my client about her family.

New Family Heirlooms/Antiques: Auntie's Liquor Cabinet, Mom and Dad's record player (including instruction booklet and original purchase receipt from the 1970s), antique laundry items, Father-in-law's bowling trophies, Grandma's antique filing cabinet, Honey's cedar chest, Mom and Dad's old kitchen table from the 1970s, Honey's curio cabinet, and my dad's old rifle (22 long JC Higgins sold at sears in the 1950s).


I hoped to accomplish more this year. Of course, I feel that way every year. Although I am pleased with what I managed to achieve in spite of many obstacles. I have countless ideas on what I hope to accomplish next year, but we will see what my health will allow. One major change is that I will not be seeking re-election on the FCHS Board for health reasons. It broke my heart to make that decision, but I felt God tugging at me to make this decision. 

I do want to say thank you to everyone who followed along with me this year. Who celebrated my accomplishments, enjoyed reading my posts, participated in the questions posed on my social media accounts, and for the new followers who joined me this year on my journey. I am humbled by all God has given me and what He has allowed me to do. Next year, God willing, I will have more videos, more stories, more finds, and maybe even a new book?? Until then...

HAPPY NEW YEAR
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Friday, October 31, 2025

Spooky Family Story Time - Happy Halloween 🎃

Happy Halloween! It's Spooky Family Story Time. Gather around the fire as I share with you a spooky story of my own that has been passed down through the years by my grandma. Got your snacks?

This happened years ago, but still within my lifetime. After my great-grandpa Joseph Ilg passed away, my great-grandma Honey moved in with my grandma Ruth Wheeler (her only daughter) and Grandpa Les Wheeler. Honey apparently was interested in the afterlife and making contact with the other side. She would tell my grandma that after she died, she would try to make contact. My grandma didn't believe in that stuff and said to her that she wouldn't acknowledge her if she did try to make contact.

Great-Grandma Honey and Me
1982-1983

Honey, Grandma, Uncle Les, and His family
late 1970s

A few years later, Honey passed away on March 5, 1983. She had been living at the Masonic Home of Missouri in St. Louis. She was cremated a few days later, and her ashes were scattered in The Big River, which is connected to the Meramec River near Eureka, Missouri. The same place where Honey's husband's ashes were scattered (and where grandpa Les' ashes would also be scattered later on as well).

The Sound of Footsteps...

Sometime later, Grandma started hearing noises in her house. She said they sounded like footsteps. And not just any footsteps. They sounded like Honey's footsteps. If you have lived with someone for a while, you begin to recognize the sounds of certain people's footsteps. And Grandma was sure it was Honey's footsteps walking down the hallway to the bedroom. She began to hear them nightly after she would go to bed. But Grandma was true to her word. She didn't want to interact with whoever was walking down the hallway, even if it was her mom. So she began to close her bedroom door at night to signal that she didn't want to be bothered and wanted whatever or whoever it was to go away. Sometime later, Grandma stopped hearing the footsteps. And they never returned. My mom was kind of upset cause she DID want to have contact with Honey, but Grandma wouldn't allow it. 

I was only one year old, so I don't have any memories of this. Mom told me about it later when I got older. Grandma stayed in that same house until she went into a nursing home around 2013. I tried to make contact when I was a kid, but never experienced what my Grandma experienced. 

My Grandma and my child
To the right in the hallway leading to the bedrooms
The hallway where Grandma heard the footsteps
April 2005

So what do you think? Do you think it was my Great-Grandma trying to make contact? Have you ever experienced anything like this? Share some of your spooky family stories in the comments. 

Happy Halloween!👻

Tuesday, August 26, 2025

How will Genealogy Research be Different in the Future?

    How much has genealogy research changed over the past 50 years? Or even history, for that matter. Think about it. Fifty years ago would have been the year 1975. Computers weren't available for research. (Microsoft was founded in 1975) To access documents like census records, you would have had to go to the library and page through censuses on microfilm. No index. No search feature. No shaky little leaves on Ancestry. Actually, Ancestry.com wasn't even around at this time.

They didn't become a company until 1983. So all your records would have been on paper, on microfilm, and in libraries. Seasoned researchers would tell us we have it easy today. Years ago, people never expected access would be available for specific documents. The birth of the internet in 1983 has changed all this. Every day, documents are digitized and made available to the public. 


A Year In History - 1975 Archives


    But have you given any thought to how genealogy research will be different in the future? Let's say another 50 years? That would put us in the year 2100. Most of us won't be here anymore. So what will be available? What will be different? What won't be available? What records can we access that wouldn't have been available 100 years ago?
    I sat down and talked with my adult child (they are now 21) about this topic. Life is definitely different from what it was in 1975. To learn more about the statistical information from 1975, head over to Census.gov, and you can compare differences from then to today. 


National News: Adults are now struggling to hit these four milestones, Census Says


So, I asked my child what they thought would be available and how research would be different in light of the changes our society has undergone.

Here are some topics that are different in society today and how they do/will impact our research:

  • More people are having kids without getting married
  • More people are having multiple partners with multiple kids
  • Polyamorous Relationships (maybe marriages one day)
    • How will these facts affect research?
    • DNA will play a bigger part
  • Changing of names
    • Different names used in censuses, obituaries, newspapers, etc.
    • Might make it more difficult to trace ancestors
  • Changing of genders
    • Multiple genders
    • Legal and surgical
  • Marriages between the same gender
    • Know the state laws and policies
    • People could have gone to other states to get married and live
    Depending on the topic, more sources will be available to support the results. The question about changing genders and same-sex marriages came up in my beginner genealogy class a couple of years ago. While this wasn't something that was addressed back 50 years ago as much as it is now, it's something we need to start thinking about when it comes to records and sources. But the same format will still be used for checking the validity. If there's no record or source to support the claim or the story, then it's not proven to be true. (See the Genealogical Proof Standard.) So it's necessary to start saving information with proof for future researchers.
    In the future, we will have access to more and different records than we've had available to us in the past. In an age where the internet runs our lives, there is almost nothing we can't access or learn about someone. And with the changing of how we live our lives, more records are kept that weren't available 50 years ago.

What different records or sources will be available that weren't in the past?
  • Credit Reports (Currently only available to the named person or, if they have passed, a legal representative or executor)
  • Medical Records (Currently only available to the named person, or family if permission was granted in writing)
  • Social Media Accounts
    • Able to download data
    • Can designate a person to take over the account after death
  • Driving Records (Available to the public without personal information)
  • Cloud Access
  • Cell phone data
  • Email Accounts
  • More access to out-of-the-country records
  • Social Security Records - the use of a Social Security number has changed quite a bit since its creation
  • Employment Records - more employers keep detailed files on past employees
    As you can see, some records are available ONLY to the named person, or to a descendant who is an executor, has a court order, or is in the paperwork. With the creation of new records comes new privacy laws. Before, we mostly dealt with the fact that census records were only released every 72 years, birth records were unavailable in some states until 100 years after the event, and sealed adoption records. Today, identity theft is a major concern, and efforts are being made to make personal data harder to access. Which is great! Unfortunately, it may also affect how we research in the future. So it's important to prepare.

    Now, with all these changes, some records won't include the same data they used to, or some records will become obsolete. Newspapers used to be a great source of information about our ancestors' lives (they still are for the past), but now, with rising costs and privacy concerns, you are lucky if an obituary was published that included any family. And more and more publishing companies are producing less paper and opting for digital formats.

What records or sources may not be available, may change, or may be obsolete?
  • City Directories (They are phasing out for privacy concerns)
  • Immigration records may not be as accessible
  • Passenger lists
  • Census Records will be asking different questions
  • Newspapers are changing 
    • They don't share as much information as they used to because of privacy concerns
    • Cost of publishing obituaries can be astronomical, so more people are not even publishing one
    • Leaning towards more digital formats and not printed formats
  • Marriage bonds - "A man would file a marriage bond to legally affirm his intention to marry a particular woman and confirm there was no legal impediment to the marriage." - Family Tree Magazine

    Now you may be asking, why focus on what will be available in the future when genealogy research is focusing on the past? Good question! Thinking about how things will be different will help us determine what we should save today for future researchers. As stated above, some sources are only available to executors or those with a court order. So we need to start today. Save copies of documents, sources, information, or anything you think will be important.

There are a few books written that address saving items for future generations and how to downsize. I recommend the following:


    I've been a genealogy researcher since 2012; not as long as others, and in that short time, I've seen many changes in how we research. It's causing me to approach my own research differently. We all need to start collecting, digitizing, and preserving our history for the future. Based on what we have seen over the last 50 years, we don't know what's going to be accessible or available to us. So prepare now. 

How do you think Genealogy Research will be different in the future?
Leave your comments below.
I'd love to hear your thoughts.



Sunday, August 10, 2025

In Memory of Paul Rickards, my father-in-law


It is with great sadness that I share the passing of Paul Edward Rickards, dear father, grandfather, and husband. He was what the nurses like to call a gentle giant. He passed away on July 30, 2025, at Missouri Baptist Medical Center in St. Louis, Missouri. He was 84 years old.

Paul was the second-born son of Joseph Francis Rickards and Lilly May Hilke, born on November 24, 1940, in St. Louis, Missouri. He attended many schools growing up, including Elgin Academy in Elgin, Illinois, graduating in 1959. He met the love of his life, Mildred Beatrice Swope, around that time while on a blind date. They were married on January 5, 1963, at Southwest Baptist Church in St. Louis, Missouri.

Paul enlisted in the military and served as a Private in the Army. He was stationed in Europe for a little over a year, visiting Austria, Switzerland, and Italy. Although he never saw any action, he was a Rifle M-1 Marksman. He was honorably discharged on March 28, 1968. After that, he was employed at the Army National Personnel Records Center off Page Avenue in St. Louis as a book binder for 35 years. He was actually working there during the time the records center caught fire, destroying the whole top floor. He retired in 2000.

He and his family were members of Southwest Baptist Church, where he was a Deacon for many years. He loved being active in the church, coaching youth sports such as softball and basketball, and leading youth group with his wife. He was also involved in many other activities. He sang in the choir, played fast pitch, organized a men's bowling team, and became the director/president of the whole area's men's Baptist bowling team.

Later on, the family became members of Rock Hill Baptist Church (now known as The Rock of St. Louis). He continued to coach many youth sports, including soccer and basketball. He and his family continued to attend church at Rock Hill until his health prohibited it.

Over the past few years, he was in and out of hospitals and rehab facilities. His health never really recovered, and he slowly started to decline. His wife, Millie, was always by his side, even until the end. He came down with pneumonia and other infections. Unfortunately, one of the antibiotics he was put on caused a horrible side effect of delirium, of which he never recovered. He passed on the morning of July 30.


Read Paul's obituary here


I only knew Paul for a short time. I met him in 2002 when Mark and I started getting closer as friends, then started dating. I remember Paul introducing me to his mom, Lilly, as his son's friend. And Mark had to correct him and said, “Girlfriend, dad.” That's my first real memory of Paul. And I'm blessed to have known him and have him as my father-in-law for 23 years. The day before he passed, I held his hand and told him how blessed I was to have had him in my life, and I thanked him for giving me his son.

You are missed so much already, Paul. 

Please give my dad a hug for me. 



Friday, July 25, 2025

It happened again: Related to my Client??

     It happened again! It's as if God brings clients to me whom I am supposed to research to find out that I might be related to them. This has happened multiple times. I found out I was related to a client I knew in Colorado. I've also learned I'm related to a friend of mine, although she wasn't a client. But learning of this connection really blew my mind.

    An associate I volunteer with at the Franklin County Historical Society hired me to do some research on her family in St. Louis. Since my family is from St. Louis, I have experience in that area. She wanted me to trace the lines to see if there were any living relatives. So off I went, building out her tree. This was a new challenge for me as my client is black. Researching records for black or African American roots can be difficult, depending on the time period and area. But I was enjoying tracking down her family.
    One of the lines I was tracing (Turner) had a girl who married a man with the last name of Hooper. But that's not what got my attention. The gentleman was born in Waverly, Tennessee. Now, if you have followed my blog and read about my family, you will know my Wheeler line is from Waverly, Humphreys County, Tennessee. My grandpa, Les Wheeler, was born there. 

Leslie Woodrow Wheeler
Born Dec 18, 1918
White Oak Creek, Humphreys County, TN

    And one of the jokes was, "If you are related to someone in Waverly, you are related to all of them." What led weight to this fact was that I did have Hooper's in my tree. So I immediately started looking closer into that line.
    I found James Ira Hooper's family in Humphreys County in the census records. First, I found the 1910 census. Thomas Hooper is the father of James Ira Hooper. The family is listed on line 45 on sheet 12A. (This is important to note)

Thomas Hooper & Family
1910 United States Federal Census
Sheet 12A; Line 45
District 60, Humphreys County, Tennessee
Source: Ancestry.com

    When I began researching my Wheeler family in Humphreys County, Tennessee, I learned quickly that they all lived very close to each other and appeared on the same pages of census records. So I decided to look at the lines above and below this Hooper family to see who would have been their neighbors. 


Read "Wheelers and Damesworth and Curtises... Oh My!"


    I scrolled up to line 33 and thought, "Hey, I recognize those names!". It turns out that it is my great-grandfather, James Benjamin Francis Wheeler, my great-grandmother, Elizabeth Wheeler (nee Damesworth), and their children. My grandpa, Les Wheeler, wouldn't be born until 1918. My family lived right near my client's Hooper family! Then I looked right below the Hooper family and found my great-grandfather's Uncle, George Smith, and his wife, Georgia Smith (nee Wheeler).

Thomas Hooper, James B Wheeler & George Smith
1910 United States Federal Census
Sheet 12A; Lines 33, 45, & 50
District 60, Humphreys County, Tennessee
Source: Ancestry.com


    If that wasn't enough, if you scroll up higher on this sheet, you will find my great-grandmother's parents: James Dillard Damesworth and Willie Damesworth (nee Thompson). They are on line 5 of the same sheet! This is insane! But wait, there is more. Right above my Damesworth family is Thomas Hooper's PARENTS!

James Damesworth & William Hooper
1910 United States Federal Census
Sheets 11B & 12A; Lines 98 & 5
District 60, Humphreys County, Tennessee
Source: Ancestry.com

    While they are listed right next to each other, we need to remember this is farm country. So the census taker would have walked many miles to the next property. They could have been crossing the road to the next farm. So it's possible the families lived across the road from each other and not next door. But still, the fact that they literally lived right by my family blew my mind. What are the odds? And this is just the 1910 Census. Let's go back to the 1900 Census.

    In 1900, William Hooper, father of James Ira Hooper, lived in Humphreys County District 18. And right underneath their family was James Damesworth, my 2nd great-grandfather. 

William Hooper & James Damesworth
1900 United States Federal Census
Sheet 4B; Lines 88 & 98
District 18, Humphreys County, Tennessee
Source: Ancestry.com 

    I have yet to prove any relation to this line of Hooper's. And if there is a connection, it would only be through the short marriage of James Ira Hooper and Margaret Turner, but a connection is still a connection. And I would be excited to be connected with my colleague. I just hope the connection is a positive one.

Just one of the exciting findings in my research. Stay tuned for more!